Thursday, July 10, 2025

Finasteride Crashed My Sex Drive—Here’s the Simple Change That Got It Back Without Losing My Hair

 


I didn’t expect a hair loss drug to mess with something so personal.

When I started finasteride, I was ready for some shedding, maybe a few months of patience. What I wasn’t ready for? Feeling numb, disconnected, and like someone had dimmed the lights on my own body.

Let me be clear:
Finasteride worked. My hair stopped falling. My temples thickened. My crown stopped glaring back under fluorescent lights.

But something else changed, quietly and subtly at first — then unmistakably.


🧨 The Crash

Week 3: I noticed I wasn’t initiating intimacy as often.
Week 4: Morning wood? Inconsistent.
Week 5: My brain and body felt… off. Like my drive was there intellectually, but the spark wasn’t connecting.

Was it placebo? Stress? Just “in my head”?

I wanted to believe that.

But when I looked into it — forums, studies, anecdotal posts — I wasn’t alone.


💡 What Was Actually Happening?

Finasteride blocks an enzyme (5α-reductase) that converts testosterone into DHT — the hormone that shrinks your hair follicles… and also plays a role in your libido and mood.

When you cut DHT too much, some guys — not all, but some — report:

  • Reduced libido

  • Erectile dysfunction

  • Mood swings

  • Brain fog

Doctors call it rare. Forums call it common.
The truth? It depends on your body — and your dose.


🛠️ The Fix That Changed Everything

I didn’t want to quit. I didn’t want to go bald, either.
So I changed one thing:

I cut my dose in half.

Instead of 1mg daily, I started taking 0.25mg every other day.

Sounds tiny, right? But within 2–3 weeks, things started to click back into place:

  • Morning arousals returned

  • My mental sharpness came back

  • My interest in sex felt natural again, not forced

And the best part?

My hair didn’t fall out again.


🧪 Why Lower Doses Still Work

Most guys (and most doctors) assume 1mg/day is the only way. But here’s what blew my mind:

Clinical studies show that:

  • 0.2mg/day blocks ~55% of DHT

  • 0.5mg/day blocks ~65%

  • 1mg/day blocks ~70%

The difference between 0.5 and 1mg? Not that huge.

For some bodies — mine included — 1mg is just too much. But lower doses? Still effective. Much easier to tolerate.


🧘‍♂️ Other Habits That Helped

Here’s what else I did alongside microdosing fin:

  • Zinc + magnesium (supports testosterone)

  • Ashwagandha (adaptogen, helped reduce cortisol)

  • Daily exercise (big for libido and blood flow)

  • Microneedling + minoxidil (to support regrowth so I wasn’t relying 100% on fin)

It wasn’t just one magic fix. It was a shift in mindset: treat the whole system, not just the scalp.


🧠 Why This Needs to Be Talked About More

Too many guys suffer in silence.

They either:

  • Stay on the full dose and feel broken

  • Quit altogether and go bald out of fear

  • Or worse — blame themselves for “just being off”

We need more middle ground.

Finasteride isn’t evil. But it’s not one-size-fits-all either.
If your sex drive drops? It’s not weakness. It’s a sign your body wants you to listen.

And adjusting your dose isn’t giving up. It’s getting smarter.


🎯 Final Thoughts

Hair loss sucks. But so does losing yourself in the process of fixing it.

If I could go back, I’d tell myself this:

“You don’t have to choose between hair and libido. You just have to find your balance.”

For me, that balance was low-dose finasteride.
My hair stayed. My sex drive came back. And most importantly — so did I.

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